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A Good Soldier

Poetry

My grandmother sits with me at the bus stop, 

the place we’ve been so many times before 

Our bodies, like tar 

etched into the seats 


She 

piles stacks of foil-covered pieces 

of fried bread with jelly 

into my lap. 


Contained in metal walls 

the hot barley tea 

steams up her reading glasses and 

smells of summer nights 


She heaps the bread into my mom’s arms, and maybe 

she tells her not to be so hard on me or maybe 

she tells her don’t lose your passport, or 사랑해, 보고 싶을거야1 or maybe 


My feet dangle from the seats at the bus stop and I kick 

at the posts, unprotected 

heel to metal 

and metal to heel, 

but I am not Achilles. 

I know when to walk away from this fight: 


when Halmuni 

tells me to. It’s unladylike. 

And I stare at the little blue dot on her forehead, right between all her wrinkles, ready to ask her for the hundredth time 

how 

she got that strange blue dot and my heel is ready to reload, to cock back 

and shoot at the seat like 

those guns in America 

but I stop. 


I hear the bus screech 

the hiss of the doors 

as they open but 

I have not yet reloaded and 

I am not ready.


And no matter how much I cry 

and wail and plead 

I have lost 

this battle and will soon lose the war of staying with Halmuni. 


And the enemy will corral me up 

the bus steps as I look 

over my shoulder, snot dripping down my face. 


And the enemy 

will try to comfort 

me 

as people shuffle down the aisle and tell her 

how much I look like her. 


And I will regret not resisting 

more that day, not throwing 

myself down and pummelling 

the sticky tar-covered concrete with my fists but it is not my fault.


A good soldier is far too obedient. The enemy will pay. 

So when she asks if I would rather have her 

or Halmuni as my mother 

she will already know the answer before I even open my mouth.


1I love you and I’ll miss you

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